ANSWER: If you’re like lots of women I’ve talked to, then it’s your experience that men overwhelmingly seem to go for the “B” women – women who don’t really have their life together in some important ways. Here are two reasons a man might make the mistake of choosing a less “together” or successful woman over you.
1) Men Are Misreading You Does having a busy successful career change the way you act in love and relationships?
I’m still sifting through the hundreds of responses that you gave me on yesterday’s survey: In case you didn’t know, all I asked was this: What is the most important question you have about relationships that you’d like me to address in my new e Book?
Next thing I knew, I was flooded with questions like this: I don’t understand the guys that come on super strong over the course of a couple weeks, and then, all of a sudden, say that they are “not ready for a relationship.” If my behavior hasn’t changed (e.g.
they are the one pursuing me), what has changed in their heads?
I’m not kidding when I tell you that I’ve got SCORES of these questions – slight variations on the same exact theme.
So, my brilliant readers, since you have strong opinions on all things pertaining to dating and relationships, I’d love to hear from you: Why do YOU think men pull away from women and committed relationships?
I know it’s a broad question, but I really want to hear what you have to say! I think men pull away from women and relationships because its just not ‘right’.
I’ve got a quick fascinating little quiz for you that’s going to show you something you need to know about men. Is it: A) A woman who’s smart, independent and “together.” Or…
B) A woman who doesn’t seem to have that much going for her and seems to “need” a man and a relationship. Why don’t they see what an amazing catch you and the women who have their act together are?
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