These are couples who really just want the thrill of the idea, and they don’t really want to swing.
New awesome swinging couples enter the community all the time, and it’s fantastic having new blood moving around.
The people you want to avoid are the ones that don’t really want to swing, so they just applied on a whim on another dating website.
Swinger dating sites are different because they cater exclusively to swingers and those curious about the swinging lifestyle.
You can hear stories about past encounters, get to know the people you’d like to swing with, and set up future swinging dates with other couples all in the comfort of your own computer chair (or chairs plural, if you and your partner don’t like sharing a single computer chair, we guess).
Whether you’re new to swinging or an old hand, you already know a few things about the lifestyle. Even if you’ve never done it before, you’ve probably met someone who has, heard about the lifestyle from others, or are just attracted because it sounds so exciting.
A lot of people are worried before they start swinging.
They think they’ll get scammed, or they’ll have personal issues, or they won’t enjoy it as much as they think they will. Swinging used to mean going to uncomfortable “meet & greets.” You’d sit there with your partner, talking to other couples, eating stupid little appetizers and making small talk, and knowing everyone was looking everyone else over, imagining them naked, and judging them.
In our experience, most of these are totally unfounded—with the exception of the scam. That is a very old model of the swinging lifestyle. Compared to these sites, the awkward old meet & greets are more like blind dates, if you thought that you HAD to go home with someone at the end of a blind date. Essentially, a good swinger site should exist for your need, not for the needs of the web provider.
Nowadays, it’s much more common for swingers, especially those just getting into the scene, to avoid those meet & greets. Even if you’re brand-new to swinging, you’ll be able to find a great swinging community online. If you get a good feeling from your website, that’s one of the first steps.
Yes, some big dating sites have sections for couples who want to meet other couples.
If you want to hang out with a lot of people who are trying swinging for the first time, be our guests.